Messages That Matter, Whenever They Matter
Your words. Your love. Timed perfectly for life's biggest moments.
Start Writing a MessageWelcome to When I Was Here
A private space where you can write meaningful messages for the people you love - and deliver them exactly when they'll matter most.
Write a letter to your child for their wedding day. Send words of encouragement to your future self. Or preserve memories to be share if you're no longer here.
This is not a social network.Your messages are private - always!Seen only by you and the people they're meant for.
How It Works
Write a Message
Text, voice, or video - whatever feels right.
Choose the Moment
Schedule by exact date or future milestone.
We Deliver It
Your message arrives when it matters most - whether you're there to say it or not.
Inspirational Ideas
A Letter to Your Child's Graduation
Write a heartfelt message to be delivered on your child's graduation day. Share your pride, wisdom, and hopes for their future as they embark on their next chapter.
Write a graduation message →
An Anniversary Message Written Years Before
Capture your love and appreciation today to be delivered on a future anniversary. Share your hopes for your relationship and the memories you hope to create together.
Create an anniversary message →
Words of Your Future Self - From Who You Are Today
Write a letter to your future self. Share your current dreams, goals, and aspirations. Create a time capsule of your thoughts and hopes for the person you'll become.
Write to your future self →
A Message for the Day Your First Grandchild is Born
Write a special message to be delivered on the day your first grandchild arrives. Share your hopes, dreams, and the love that will surround them from day one.
Write a grandchild message →